Monday, March 16, 2015

FIRST DATES: EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY


First dates can go one of two ways: you either have a blast and find someone you want to date, or you sit there planning your escape route.

Your first date experience is probably going to vary depending on where you met your date and whether or not you already know them. If you just met the person you are going out with, you might be a little more nervous. In your head, you want to come off as cool and carefree. After all, first impressions are everything, right? But what really happens when you are in the moment?

If you have never met your date in person before, you have to think about your first interaction.

Expectation: You will be really smooth and make him fall in love at first sight. 


Reality: Did we just hive five?


Expectation: You will be flirty and make fun conversation. 


Reality: You blurt out the first thing that comes to mind.


Expectation: You realize you are completely infatuated by the person, and the conversation just comes easily. 


Reality: There's a lull in the conversation, so you start talking about things on the table.


I'm just going to keep sipping on water and hope he didn't hear me. 

Expectation: He asks you to tell him more about yourself, and you want to tell him about involved you are. You are passionate, yet spontaneous, and you are always open to new experiences.


Reality: All you can think of is how you spent all of last night studying, and the highlight of your week was watching Netflix.


Expectation: Your date will charm you with his funny side.


Reality: His sense of humor is completely opposite of yours, and you have no idea how to react.


Sometimes it takes a few first dates and awkward experiences before you find someone you actually want to keep dating. There's nothing wrong with that. Think of it this way: every bad date is a great story. You can look back on the situation and laugh about it. Plus, when you find the one worth dating, you will be glad the other dates didn't work out. 

And when the first date goes well, you will know it, because reality will meet your expectations. 




Thursday, March 5, 2015

8 Times Netflix Was Your Bad Night's Saving Grace

Ah, Netflix. It is always there for us. Whether you are looking to unwind or find something to cheer you up after a long night, you can count on Netflix to have something for you.

1. Problem: You had a fight with your best friend


Solution: One Tree Hill: Peyton and Brooke have one of the best friendships of all time. Through ups and downs (and psycho kidnappers who pretend to be long-lost family members), these girls always have each other. So you had a fight with a friend. If she’s a true friend, you guys will get through this, and things will be back to normal before you know it.

2. Problem: You embarrassed yourself in front of everyone



Solution: How I Met Your Mother: Anyone remember Robin Sparkles? We all have embarrassing stories from our past, but who knows embarrassment better than a former Canadian pop start whose hit single was about going to the mall? If you haven’t seen this throwback video to Robin’s past, look it up now. It will change your life (or at least hopefully your night).

3. Problem: You found out your SO cheated




Solution: Friends: When someone you’re into hooks up with someone else, it hurts. Even if you were “on a break” or hadn’t officially defined the relationship, you don’t want to see someone you care about with someone else. Rachel, Monica, Phoebe, Ross, Chandler, and Joey will always be there for you, because how do you watch an episode without laughing out loud?

4. Problem: Someone tried to bring you down



Solution: Mean Girls: “Cady Heron, you are a mean girl.” Unfortunately mean girls aren’t just in movies. Sometimes you are going to encounter people that take pleasure in other people’s misery, and you have to learn to brush it off. A night spent with Karen trying to explain how her boobs can tell when it’s raining (because of her ESPN) might be just what you need.

5. Problem: You broke up with your boyfriend


Solution: New Girl: Who could forget when Jess first moved in with the guys because she had broken up with her boyfriend? She sat and watched Dirty Dancing on repeat and sobbed into a pile of tissues. And if you think that would work for you, Dirty Dancing is also on Netflix. But a good laugh with Zooey Deschanel will definitely turn your night around.

6. Problem: You drunk called/texted your ex


Solution: 21 & Over: In college, you are inevitably going to have the “Why did I do that?” kind of night. You will make mistakes. You will do things that you normally wouldn’t, and you will have to deal with the consequences. So calling or texting your ex wasn’t the best idea, but it happened, and you have to move on. The best thing to do in this situation is to realize that there are reasons that the relationship ended. It can be tempting to revisit old feelings, but in the end, it is probably not going to change anything. In 21 & Over, three friends learn that part of growing up is making mistakes, and those mistakes can help you mature and discover who you really want to be.

7. Problem: You saw your crush with someone else


Solution: Gilmore Girls: Who else was heartbroken watching Dean realize how much chemistry there was between Jess and Rory? It’s not easy seeing someone you are into hitting it off with someone else. But hopefully spending time with your favorite over-caffeinated Gilmores will help you forget about all of your worries. You can dream about what it would be like if you lived in Stars Hollow and how good a burger from Luke’s Diner really is.

8. Problem: You found out the person you’re into doesn’t want the same things


Solution: 13 Going On 30: Maybe the one you like is looking for different things. You are probably better moving on because you can’t force anyone to want the same things as you. Jenna wants nothing more than to be a desirable woman with a mature and attractive boyfriend. She shows that sometimes you have to be patient and open to other possibilities, and sometimes what you really need is right in front of you.

No matter what the situation is Netflix will always be there for you. Sometimes it helps to just know that someone else has experienced what you’re going through, and our favorite fictional characters have been through it all.


*This article was first published on Her Campus.

Monday, March 2, 2015

MY FAVORITE THINGS

For some reason the other day I started thinking about some of favorite things. I like to enjoy the little things in life, and I think that every now and again you should take some time to think about the things in life that really make you happy. There are so many wonderful pieces of everyday life that give us pleasure. Here are a few of my favorite things:


  1. The aroma of chocolate chip cookies baking.
  2. Warm summer rain. 
  3. Cute notebooks.
  4. Watching movies. 
  5. Snuggling. 
  6. Inspirational quotes. 
  7. G2 Pens--0.38mm.
  8. Thin mints.
  9. 3 am talks. 
  10. The view from an airplane.
  11. Coffee mugs.
  12. Book stores and they way they smell.
  13. The ways the waves crash into the shore.
  14. Hugs.
  15. My little sister's giggle.
  16. Stand-up comedy.
  17. Memorial Union Terrace.
    Memorial Union Terrace
  18. The butterflies you get when you really like someone. 
  19. Peppermint Bon Bon ice cream.
  20. Looking at the stars.
  21. Singing along to the radio with friends.
  22. Stop-motion animation.
  23. Coffee shops. Sometimes.
  24. Car talks.
  25. Finding new blogs.
  26. Summer Nights.
  27. Late-night swimming (see 26).
  28. Yoga.
  29. The Shirley Temples at Olive Garden--no shame. I still get them. They're delicious.
  30. Watching the sunset over the ocean.
  31.  Laughter.
  32. Christmas lights.
  33. Driving with the windows down and no particular destination. 
  34. Candles.
  35. Trader Joe's.
  36. Cute cupcake shops. 
  37. Videos of puppies, because how can that not make you smile?
  38. The guitar solo in "Free Bird." 
  39. Staying up until the middle of the night because you lose track of time. 
  40. Outdoor concerts. 
  41. Blowing bubbles.
  42. Finding new TV shows. 
  43. Deep talks with friends about life. 
  44. Catching up with friends you haven't seen in a while.
  45. Walking around the lake.
  46. Getting a seat by the window (and outlets) in the library.
  47. Arnie Palmers.
  48. Unexpected adventures.
  49. Hammocks. 
  50. Making lists.
 There are so many more, but these are some that came to me right away. It's funny how we can find something to complain about so easily when there are so many things that we have to be grateful for. I think sometimes we just forget to stop and think about the little things that make us happy. Life is busy, I get it. But slow down every once in a while and try to appreciate the small things. You won't regret it.



What are some of your favorite things? What makes you smile?
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